“Both ways” meaning I can sync Cubendo as slaves to the 24trk tape machines….or slave the tape machines to the Cubendos.
At the computers-only level, I run 2-4 synchronized pc machines at a time, Windows 11 Pro (although I can dial in a couple of old winXp and 7 machines when I have reason).
Cubase 3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14 (depending on what I’m doing between testing or recording)…Nuendo 14,13,12,11,10.
When I run the tape machines as chaselock slaves to the computers, their motor synchronizers handle the tach etc sync. I own a bunch of ats500s for that as they historically have been great little workhorses for mci, studer, 3m, tascam etc machines…even compared to adams smith stuff imo.
When running Cubendos as slaves, tape machine synchronizers are powered off as no need for them….just smpte from a mahine and dtp resolving everything.
I work exclusively at 48k across all my systems, always have, always will 
I usually run the Cubendos as the slaves in practice as the instantaneous lockups work better for me in the constant short-distance ff/rew I do with the tape machines during transfers.
I’m generally only synchronizing the entire shebang at the same time when I’m transferring zillions of old project slave reels (46trk stuff etc) to the daws for remixes. If I’m purely recording from scratch, I generally am on tape-only for overdubs as I do boatloads of tape bouncing and am generally baking in a predetermined kind of sound.
Every audio signal anywhere is routed through the consoles completely.
No Macs. I dumped all my Macs about 20 years ago.
One point of advantage in owning so many varying types of synchronizers is I can instantly dial in varying combinations (dtp, ats500s pps100 and more) to quickly get to a solution..which means I haven’t encountered sync challenges for decades.
In your case, you’ve sorta blown a couple of weeks just futzing with the jl cooper box only..and a lot of headscratching….which would drive me bonkers 
Likely more info than you asked for, but this may give a good indication that rock solid sync is a reality for many….and has been for eons.