The deamon is on ( at startup of your computer) you just don’ t open it to route from there. Try to set the connections in cubase and then route from the ipad as I expained. Maybe this works.
On my setup I had to create " virtual midiports" using a program called midiyoke, as I was unable to connect directly to the deamon from cubase. So it is deamon>midiyoke port>cubase and back the other way here.
Also check device setup>midi>midiport setup. In cubase. Do you “see” the deamon ports here and are they “active”?
( be shure to disable them in " all midi in" )!
Another thing, what happens if you open the Lemur editor on your mac? Are you able to connect there? Are you able to send files to your Ipad?
Removing and re- installing the editor and deamon may also help. Are you using the correct version number? Ipad and editor/ deamon version must be identical, so check your ipad version and download/re- install the corresponding editor version on your mac.
And yes, if you do something else on yor ipad and return to lemur it needs a reset. In my setup however, the connections are still there. I just reset the mackie controllers in cubase, or reload the song ( without quiting cubase) and I’ m fine…
Google " lemur connection cubase mac" this may also help…
Hope this helps, JB