How to add default automation parameters (fi send 1)

On found this topic that exaclty describes a problem I have with Nuendo:

Besides volume the one automation parameter I really use like all the time is Send 1 Level.
And everytime I do wanna use it, I have to go through the same annoying procedure with 6 mouse clicks to get access to it.
The only other way I might guess is to enable write mode, move the fader and show all used automation. Not quite faster.

Is there any way to permanent add a parameter to the pop up menu?
I never used any of the default parameters except volume…

My sends are also invisible, probably caused by hitting ‘remove unused parameters’. One would expect to have some kind of setup for (un)visible automation parameters but can’t find it.

Any idea how to restore to the default visible automation parameters? (attached picture)